Many men out there all believe they can finger a girl and it’s an easy thing to do…Yes! it’s easy if all you do is just to thrust with your finger. The main purpose of fingering which most girls love, is you doing what the penis can’t do and so if you end up using your finger just like your penis, then there’s no need.
The vagina is made up of a lot of nooks and crannies, with millions of sensitive buds and the penis can’t get to all these areas so you need the fingers to give her that rock hard orgasm.
Another reason is because, women take longer to ‘cum’ compared to men and so fingering will help prepare her to get to that orgasm faster when you go at it.
Some of these are the reasons why some women love fingering and doing it properly makes them go crazy, but it’s not as easy as it looks, that’s why it’s important to learn and ask questions. You need to know exactly what you touching and how it’s important to the woman and what she will derive from it and go for it. So without much ado, here are some tips on how to properly finger a girl to give her an orgasm.
Tip #1: Prepare
Tell your partner to drink plenty of fluid before sex. This will help make sure she will be very wet when you touch her. It helps her replenish her prostatic fluid as well, which is similar to seminal fluid. However, she should not drink too much or she will end up having the urge to urinate.
Tip #2: Take Time To Relax
Relaxing will take the pressure off the sexual act. Activities that calm both your nerves will help you engage each other more intensely. This is one of the basics of foreplay. Kiss her, touch her, tell her how beautiful she is and how much you want to please her. Her mind needs to be at ease and she needs to feel like she can totally trust you and let herself go.
Tip #3: Give Her Clitoral Orgasm First
You should stimulate her clitoris to give her an orgasm using either your fingers or your tongue. If your fingers, make sure she’s very wet before you start or use some lube. The first orgasm will help her get ready for you to enter her with your fingers. The reason why she will be squirting later on is because of the longer and stronger orgasms that she will have.
This is a tip that is usually overlooked in learning how to finger a girl successfully.
Tip #4: Stimulate Her G-Spot
Stimulate her more by inserting your index finger into her vagina and find her G-spot. The G-spot is a slight bump on her vaginal wall about 3 inches inside her. You will be able to find it with your fingers once she is aroused, it’s walnut sized and has a different texture than the rest of the vagina.
Tip #5: Stimulate Her U-Spot
You can miss this step out if you want to. Sometimes finding and touching the G-spot is hard enough to do the first time. You can always add this sexy move in another time. The U-Spot is the bump on the upper portion of the vagina. If you massage this area together with the G-spot, it will make her even more sexually aroused and ready for an incredible orgasm, even maybe multiple orgasms!
Tip #6: When She’s Close To Coming
When she feels like she needs to pee, she is close to ‘cumming’. It’s not pee that she’s going to release but her sexual fluids. When she releases, it may squirt out and there could be a lot of it, that’s why you needed a towel, but some ladies especially if they haven’t been fingered before like this, may only release a small amount of ejaculate. That’s fine…You can always try again another night.
